Solmuteoriaa is a blog where I untangle the knots of reality while trying to promote optimistic and constructive way of thinking in order to help myself and others to understand ourselves thus insuring a better future for our children.

I am a dad, a husband and an ambitious optimistic existentialist perfectionist nerd. Since 2011 I've been fighting depression and while there is no end in sight, I refuse to surrender. So I write a blog.

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To love, is to know when to let go

Love is a very controversial subject. Everyone sees it differently. Letting go is not about breaking ones heart. I believe, that when the feeling is strong enough, it is possible to let go without feeling heartbroken. Although one can think the feeling of love as something otherworldly, something bigger than ourselves, I think real love comes from the sense of responsibility and respect for another.